Did you realise that just looking at someone’s face can generate a first impression? According to research, it only takes 33-100 milliseconds for someone to establish an opinion about your character.
A short period of time is certainly insufficient to accurately assess a person’s character. But it’s natural for us to form opinions about people when we first meet them. We also become emotionally connected to our first impressions of someone and find it difficult to modify our minds. Even when confronted with contradictory evidence.
You never get a second chance to create a good first impression, as the saying goes.
Continue reading to find out why first impressions are so important and how to make a lasting first impression.
Here are some pointers to help you ace that first meeting.
1. Establish direct eye contact
Nonverbal communication is accomplished through eye contact. Establishing eye contact is interpreted as a sign of honesty and respect for the person with whom you are conversing. Keeping eye contact also demonstrates that you are paying attention to the other person and listening to what they have to say.
2. Be genuine.
People can detect insincerity very quickly, so it pays to be yourself. Being honest entails being aware of your own strengths and limitations and sharing them in a respectful manner.
3. Be an effective communicator
A competent communicator listens more than he or she speaks. A good rule of thumb is to talk one-third as much as you listen. Listening more demonstrates your attentiveness and makes the other person feel heard.
4. Display self-assurance
Even if you don’t feel brave, acting confidently will give the appearance that you do. An air of confidence will help you make a good first impression.
A good first impression can give numerous advantages. It provides you with benefits in both your personal and professional life, both short and long term.
The suggestions above might help you master the art of making a good first impression. You can make a lasting impression by paying attention to detail and practising. For all of the correct reasons.
