What is positive parenting?
Based on positive psychology, this approach to parenting focuses on nurturing good behavior, rather than punishing bad behavior.
It reinforces the idea that there are no “good” or “bad” kids, just different kids with different needs!
When children feel capable, secure and connected, they’re better able to understand right from wrong, keeping them intrinsically motivated to behave.
So, how do you help your child feel this way?
Positive parents should always:
Make expectations clear
Be consistent and reliable
Show affection and appreciation
Seek to understand their children
Encourage curiosity, independence and personal development
Does positive parenting work?
Sure, positive parenting sounds good. But does it actually do anything?
Research says: yes!
Here are a few proven outcomes of positive parenting:
Limits negative behavior
Encourages personal development
Lowers instances of childhood depression
Boosts cognitive, social and emotional skills
Helps kids understand and regulate their own emotions
Minimizes the negative effects of socioeconomic disadvantage
Improves self-esteem, independence, creativity and intrinsic motivation
When should you use positive parenting?
Wondering how old your child needs to be for positive parenting to work?
Good news — you can start using it right now!
Babies can benefit straight away from approaches that prioritize attachment and connection, which is exactly what positive parenting does.
Just make sure to vary your approach as your child ages to help them get the most out of your positive parenting techniques
positive parenting techniques to use with your child
Ready to use positive parenting in your home?
Try these simple techniques to start your positive parenting journey today!
1. Be present
Find new ways to spend quality time with your child and make sure to be there when you do.
Use these experiences to reinforce the connection between you and maintain a level of trust. This way, your child can feel safe knowing your bond is always there (even when you discipline them) and will be more likely to turn to you during tricky situations
