Spotting fake friends in the office can be challenging, but there are some signs to look out for:
They only talk to you when they need something: If a coworker only reaches out to you when they need help or a favor, they may not be a genuine friend.
They gossip about others: If a coworker is always talking behind other people’s backs, it’s possible they’re doing the same thing to you when you’re not around.
They’re not there when you need them: If you’re going through a tough time or need support, a true friend will be there for you. If your coworker is always too busy or never available, they may not be a real friend.
They’re insincere with compliments: If a coworker is constantly giving you compliments that seem insincere or fake, it could be a sign they’re not genuine.
They’re quick to criticize: A fake friend may criticize you in front of others or behind your back. A true friend would give constructive feedback in private and not tear you down in public.
Remember, not everyone in the office needs to be your friend, but it’s essential to have a supportive and positive work environment.